Q: I've read a lot about office romances lately because there seems to be a strong likelihood that I will be involved in one soon. We flirt constantly and some people have mentioned the sexual tension between us is so thick you can cut it with a knife. Some say the stigma against workplace romance has disappeared, while others warn against it. What should I look out for prior to getting involved with a co-worker?

A: It's also been said that the office is the new singles bar. Since most of us spend so much time at work, thus leaving minimal time for a social life, there are many co-worker couplings.

There are many articles stating that office romance is okay, but these same articles also advise to look before you leap. Here's why:

Boss and worker bee. Romance between a boss and a subordinate is never advisable. If and when the boot knocking ends, sexual harassment - or worse - lawsuits and legal actions may ensue. This is mainly because the boss may be perceived as having used status, influence or power to force the other into the relationship. This opens both parties - and the company - to embarrassing and expensive situations.

Peer to peer. Romancing those at the same pay grade as you is usually okay. This is because neither party can be perceived as using status, influence or power to cohere the other into a romantic or sexual relationship.

Legal risks. Even if you're considering dating someone at your pay grade, step back for a moment and consider whether your potential office romance partner might sue or levy charges. As stated above, they can be embarrassing and costly to everyone involved.

Employment vs. love. If office romance is against the rules at your company, then the two of you have some choices to make. For instance, is this love or just physical? Are either or both of you willing to risk your careers to be with the other? If one of you needs to work someplace else in order to stay together, which one will it be?

IN THE CARAVAN: Before entering into an office romance, look before you leap, date only those co-workers lateral to you and be prepared to make some tough choices.

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